Kill Patriarchy

                             Kill Patriarchy 

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India has been often blamed for its patriarchal society &  Men more often for  patriarchal mindset.  They are held responsible for all attrocities or wrongdoings on women atleast the latest reflection by WCD ministry says so..Now understanding  crime has nothing to do with  gender lest explore what patriarchy is? 

The biggest problem of chest beating feminist is  "patriarchy".  They leave no stone unturned to blame "patriarchy" for every discomfiture of women.  Their  entire scourge comes on Men.  Their volition to burry patriarchy is sacrosanct.  With so much of misconception in air,  I doubt does any feminist ever had wits to understand what "patriarchy" is.. 

Opening up on the subject " patriarchy "  is defined by two ways, let's explore the context for the same.. Patriarchy is a family,  group, Government "*controled*" by men.  Wondering why I am emphasizing so much on the word control. Because control is a cuss word so what women donot want is to be controlled..& that means they want liberation from any form of control by men that's fair enough.. 

Let's understand why does men control  family.  Who gave them this authority to control??  Turn around the pages of history &  explore  walls of caves where lived  ancient uncivilized men and women.. Lot of picture emerged where men were hunters and women were seen cooking..  Now that was by chance or by choice.. Men capable of hunting skills did hard labor took all risk of their lives and took measures to hunt.. Now for whom to survive for themselves.. Hey isn't that too selfish.. Oh no.. What ever they hunted they brought back home to feed their women n children.. Thus started the protector/provider mindset of men and women them self gave this authority  called "*control *"  in return of the social security and provision man made for them.  Women adopted to remain safe and secure in the forewalls of the cave and took the lesser risk jobs like cooking for their men and grooming their children.  That's how our civilization and society evolved.  

Now  the biggest tragedy is the authority which has been bestowed concensuously is challenged as curse for the women.  "* Control *" is presumed to be synonymous of "opression". Is control opression that triggers my mind.. We elect a Govt to control the nation while it does so can we blame it for opression.?? . If a police Cheif controls city can he's be opressor for city?? , if a Teacher control a class is he opressor too??   if a doctor controls a hospital can their could be no bigger  opressor?? . Last but not the Least If a father controls a family isn't that achme of opression..??? 

What "*control.*" means is discipline with authority for the common good.  That's what all do barring exception of few.  I will talk about the exception a little later let's keep it parked here for a while.. authority achieved by virtue of responsibility,.. that too bestowed willfully.. Can we deem it condemable.. Than God's have mercy on us...

 Coming to another meaning of cuss word  " Patriarchy" is a system where bloodline is recognised by fathers name...  Now feminism can't bear a thought but are we not proud to use our fathers name as family name..feminist can still find fault with that.. Several south Indian people use not only fathers name but name of village as well.. That's out of love respect pride and association.. Not a forceful adoption. Time immemorial people have been recognising each other with fathers or mothers name may it be home.. Place family all between male & female on mutually agreed basis.. Now does this leads to opression.. How?? Yet to understand.. 

Coming back to what we had parked earlier..  Now let me assume that for all attrocities on women our system" patriarchy" is responsible.. So now what... Let's turnaround the scenario.. "Patriarchy"  be replaced by "matriarchy"... 

A complete role reversal for men apart from biological limitation.. Now feminist even blame men for that.. But being born a men or women is it in somebody hand?? is it choice or chance?? It's hod creation but patriarchy is to be blamed.. Bcos every attrocities have one "patriarchy"system responsible...dont know how..?? 

Now since we accepted" patriarchy" to be replaced with." matriarchy".. It should be definitely a better system than patriarchy.. So 

Two things will surely happen, 1. No women will suffer as women will happily ensure for all protection and provision of men... Considering men's needs and requirements first (what men definitely do in patriarchy) .. Second  no men should be oppressed since women have a problem with this as they believe that in patriarchy men are opressor of women so they would refrain from doing the same..  If women look forward to bring down "patriarchy"  with the vision of a just and better system.. I believe every Men will stand for women if women commit as per above matriarchal system.. However  when comes to responsibility never seen a feminist taking any kinda ownership though.. 

A family system, a value pillar "*patriarchy*"  has actually kept protected Indian society which stands tall.. A nation with lowest crime rate against women and safe heavens for them.  Unlike west which has already lost its sheen when it comes to value system and family.. Unfortunately governed by feminist philosophy of demolishing patriarchy.. 

"Patriarchy" is male "dominated society ".. Ohh really.  Let's see the quality of dominance.. 1.All rules /laws shud favor the class who dominate 2. They legalise their unfair acts 3. All gains comes to dominating class.Now let's look at Indian society . All laws / rules favors women now if you doubt that try fighting any case against women in any court you will attain enlightenment.  In case if relationship goes well men happily serves as bonded labor financial slave through out is life &  if it sours he loses reputation, his home children, job and family & the law enforcement agency ensures that he's brought to rags by paying through is nose to women. So in case of contingency the gains are legalised to be diverted to women.  The SC observation of these laws as legal extortion can't be ignored. The question about legalizing unfair act can be equated with amnesty from committing a crime.. Now for women adultery is not a crime.. Cruelty by women on men is not a crime, domestic violence by women on men is not a crime...ohh yes it's men alone who commit these acts.. But how do we know that women don't.. No laws to record such offences against women no studies being conducted.. & if at all Men face domestic violence they are laughed out...all thus and much more and the jibe continues its a male dominated society.. How come.. can somebody explain?? 

All this discussion with women's perspective so it's essential to bring in male perspective as well.  Why patriarchy should be doomed by men... Sooner the patriarchy is killed.men will be absolved of their roles of protectors &  providers.. And when this happens men will have nothing to do with women.. Complete liberation and male empowerment would evolve.  Men will get their life back from being a financial bonded labour to family & society, they will have no control on women folk and no option but to live for themselves..

Left with us to make a choice.. Patriarchy or no patriarchy some system is required to run the Society.. What's fair or unjust.. Upto readers to decide.. "Patriarchy"  is what has held the Indian value system so tall for ages.. But feminist abhor "patriarchy"  and for common good should die.. Let's kill  "patriarchy"  for both men and women...